I don’t like to view divorce as a battle. Fortunately, now, I am on the other side of divorce and have found happiness. I have a functional relationship with my x-wife and a terrific relationship with my kids, who I have with me half the time. It’s great now, but I did have to fight for it.
Whether we like to admit it or not, divorce, while it is happening, is a battle. And, like in every battle, you need to be armed with as much information as possible.
I realized that a lot of women going through divorce were reading Divorce Secrets Revealed: What Every Women Should Know.
I am a man. Why would I want to read this? Well, in every good battle, it helps to know what the other side is up to. On a hunch, I bought the book thinking that my wife may be reading it. (After our divorce, when we were able to share a bottle of wine and have a reasonable conversation, she relayed to me that Divorce Secrets was her divorce bible, her go-to guide during our divorce process.)
As men have their favorite books (mine was Men’s Divorce Tactics), women quite fairly have theirs too. This book teaches women everything they need to know to get as much from you as they can. In fact, the book decrees: “Make HIM pay for your escape.”
If you don’t think your future x-wife is reading it, you’re probably wrong! It’s a great book for women as it teaches them how to get as much from you as they can.
And it’s a great book for men to have to know what the enemy is up.
Remember, after your divorce, your goal is to get on with your life and maintain a sustainable relationship with your x-wife, especially if you have kids together.
However, during the divorce process, it is a battle and you need to know what the enemy is up to.
She is certainly reading Divorce Secrets Revealed: What Every Women Should Know.
You should too.